How to pick out lingerie for a woman

When choosing lingerie, remember it’s for her, not you. Follow these tips to find sexy underthings she’ll actually like—and wear.

You Will Need:
* A selfless attitude
* Knowledge of her lingerie sizes and tastes
* A generous spirit

Step 1: Talk to her
There’s nothing wrong with asking her what kind of lingerie she prefers. The more input she has in your selection, the more likely it is that she’ll put it on. Also, this way you’ll be sure of her size.

TIP: If you want to keep it a surprise, here’s a size cheat sheet. Think of her breasts in terms of fruit: A lemon is an A cup, an orange is a B, grapefruit is a C, and a melon is a D. In panties, an extra-small corresponds to a dress size of 2 to 4; a small is a size 6; medium is a size 8; large is a size 10; and extra-large is a size 12 or above.

Step 2: Look at color, style, and fabric
Take your research findings to the store, and look for the colors, styles, and fabrics she gravitates toward.

Step 3: Ask for help from saleswomen
Enlist the aid of a saleswoman. She can show you what styles are popular and explain some lingerie basics.

Step 4: Don’t be cheap
Buy the best lingerie you can afford; research shows that lingerie is the number-one item that women don’t like to scrimp on.

Step 5: Buy matching sets
Buy her a matching set, or sets, rather than random pieces.

Step 6: Consider alternatives
There’s a lot more to lingerie than bras and panties. Consider a teddy, a silky chemise, a camisole, or a “bralet,” which is a cross between a bra and a camisole. Or a soft, sexy tank top that she’ll look forward to wearing to bed.

Step 7: Don’t forget presentation
Have the gift wrapped exquisitely, even if you have to pay a store clerk to do it.

Step 8: Be encouraging
Tell her how sexy she’ll look in her new lingerie. Flattery will get you everywhere!