The fine line between girl friends and girlfriends lies in sexual attraction and flirting. If you haven't done something to cause them to think sexual feelings about you, then most likely you will remain their friend.
Step 1
It is not uncommon to find yourself in a situation where you like a girl as more than a friend, but she just likes you as a friend. In some cases there is nothing you can do about this; however, if you can sow the seeds of erotic thought, without actually taking drastic or direct action, you may well find her becoming more attracted to you.
Step 2
The problem often lies in being nice, and not naughty, as many people are. This will give an impression that you are a great friend, but not a great lover. So you really need to flirt more. And if you don't think you are any good at flirting -- don't worry! Flirting is, and should be, playful and fun.
Step 3
Joke around, be more playful, spend more time looking into their eyes or glancing at them "cutely" or "suggestively". If she gets creeped out by it, make a joke of it, but make sure you're not coming across as a weirdo.
Step 4
Make physical contact 3 times every time you meet up with her. Each time you do, it should be about 2-3 seconds, somewhere like their hand, shoulder, or anywhere that's not too uncomfortable.
Step 5
Don't spend too much time around her. Instead, spend lots of time, and then none for a while, then more again, and flirt while you are there. While you are gone, she is given a chance to think about you, which hopefully she will.
Step 6
Take care of your appearance. Make sure you shave regularly and don't smell.
Step 7
Do things for her, like help her out whenever you can, but spend more time with her when she is happy than when she is sad. This helps her to associate happiness with you. If you are successful in making her your girlfriend, that's when it becomes important to support her when she needs it.
Step 8
Invite her to parties. You can request for her to do the same, but be careful: you can come across as a creep to some people by doing this.
Step 9
The most important thing is to be flirtatious, and let things happen naturally.
Step 10
Listen to her! Don't just sit there and nod your head pretending to listen. Girls love it when you listen and take the time to truly understand them. Not only that, but listening will benefit the potential future relationship and also strengthen your current friendship.
Step 11
Lean your shoulders a little towards her, girls often like it. But be careful, don't tend to fall on her, this can make her irritate.
Tips
- Be playful (Tickle games often work well. Try poking her in the sides.) Be careful she is not annoyed by this or you will ruin your chances. Depending on the girl, this can work in very strange ways. She could give you a playful slap but still find it funny. If that is the case DO NOT overdo it. Then you just come over as purposely annoying.
- Be presentable!
- Stand up for her if she needs it.
- Flirt, but let her make the first move, just to make sure you don't ruin your friendship.
- Be nice to her and call her almost every day. Then stop calling her for one or two days. Then go back to calling her or text message her. Sooner or later, she'll be missing all the attention and she will start to make a move. Give her some attention.
- Learn about kino. (The art of non-sexual touching.)
Warnings
- Make sure you don't do this with someone who already has a boyfriend or girlfriend.
- Don't spend ages on this. The longer you wait, the harder it is. Basically, it's way easier to do this before you become good friends with them, because a majority of the time they have spent with you will be the flirtatious "wild" side of you.
- If you try to play a tickle game with her, and she doesn't like it, back off. If you don't, you could really make her mad; not to mention that it's sexual harassment.
- remember, girls can be shy and they may like you but are too shy to tell you.
