There are various ways to Tell if a Girl Likes You. However, if you're in high school, there are certain ways to go about it. This is a comprehensive guide into figuring out whether or not the girl that you fancy feels the same way.
Step 1
Ask her stuff - Ask her a simple question. Even if its "Can I have a piece of gum?" If she replies fast, it means she's not interested, because she wants you to leave, or she is shy and nervous. If she doesn't reply quickly, it means that she wants you to stick around longer, because she likes you. Ask her anything, and if its a quick reply, shes not interested, if its a slow reply or for you, it means she is interested, and wants you to hang around longer and is comfortable with you. If she likes you she'll want to talk to you more than any other person...unless she's playing hard to get.
Step 2
Be yourself! If she stretches frequently, this may be a sign that she is nervous, or feels the need to move because you're around. But don't get confused, because she might just need to stretch. If she does it more often when she's around you, she may be trying to get your attention.
Step 3
Does she pay attention to you? When she talks to you, does she say your name a lot? If so, it means that she wants you to notice that she likes you.
Step 4
Say something random to her, anything at all. Just look her way and blurt it at her and keep doing so until she notices. Chances are, if she has even a trace amount of feelings for you, she'll smile and try to stretch the conversation. If she just gives you a dirty look and turns away, it's okay, just go to the next step.
Step 5
Talk to her. If your seat in class is in between or in front of her and one of her male friends join in on the conversation. If it's not just a simple "What are you doing for lunch today?" and it's more like an actual conversation, maybe about the theme park she went to over the weekend for instance, listen to the conversation. If it's something that interests you, make a statement, even if its not try to say something of value to the conversation.
Step 6
Hang around her. (But NOT excessively!) Pass by her and give her a few second glances. If each time you look back, she looks at you or in your direction, she probably has a crush on you. Why else would she choose you out of the crowd? Also, in the classroom, make yourself known. Go up to the front of the class to throw something away or sharpen your pencil. Look calm while doing it and strut back to your seat. Glance over a couple times to see if she's checking you out. If she does and looks away really fast, it's a done deal. Better yet - if she's bold - she'll smirk at you and look down. But even if she doesn't look at you at the moment you look at her, don't be worried; she's probably trying to hide her feelings.
Step 7
During class, if you stare at her for random reasons, she might be staring at you. If she stares at you and when you look at her, she may immediately look away from you. That's a sign that maybe she likes you. Try eye flirting, this is a great way to flirt with out disrupting class/getting in trouble.
Step 8
Hold the door open for her. If she looks at you when she says thank you, she's trying to make you notice her gratitude. Others would probably just stare straight ahead and walk out the door. Smile and say you're welcome - do not grunt or nod.
Step 9
Ask her for help during class (this especially comes in handy in science classes because of the lab work). Don't act like she's just a homework buddy though, just some quick questions to get used to talking to her. If she feels like you're using her, it's not good, so lay it on thinly and don't overdo it. Come prepared with an answer to your question and just say "Oh that's what I got too! Thanks." Remember to smile. Again, if she tries to stretch this opportunity to talk to you and does more than just hand you her answers, she's interested.
Step 10
If the girl stands up for you a lot, Then she probably likes you and doesn't want you to think that nobody likes you and you have no friends!
Step 11
If she is always turned in your direction and making noise or odd, sudden movements like tapping or whistling, or if you sit behind her and she is frequently turned towards you or has her arm on your desk, it's probably a good sign. It's also a good sign when she plays hard to get. Watch for her sitting up really straight or really slouched (depending on what she thinks you like) and playing with her hair, or if she's always laughing. It might be that she likes to giggle a lot but often times she's smiling nonstop in the hopes that you'll see her doing it.
Step 12
Notice if she's got her body hunched toward you and not leaning back against her chair when you sit in front of her. Maybe her arm keeps brushing your back or her head is conveniently right next to your shoulder. If any of these can be answered with a yes, she likes you and wants to feel closer to you.
Step 13
If she play hits you a lot, or pretends to be mean to you, it's also a good sign, in other words, she's flirting with you.
Step 14
Try to seem interested in her school projects or special talents. If you have any same hobbies or interests make that into a conversation because then things won't get awkward.
Step 15
If she's on your bus, try sitting across from her and if she is sitting alone, try looking out your window at a small angle, and look out of the corner of your eye across at her. If she stays looking your way she might like you. Wait until you think she thinks you don't notice and suddenly turn in her direction; if she turns quickly she might definitely like you.
Step 16
Be sure to be nice to her, and make sure that you do not make her think you dislike her at all!
Step 17
If her friends look at her and then you, or whenever you are talking to her, her friends give looks at you and raise their eyebrows, this is also a good sign, and if somebody says she likes you, chances are she told them because she was hoping you would find out.
Step 18
If you sit diagonal from her in class, her knees or shoulders will be pointed towards you. Or if you sit across from her, she will be angled in towards you.
Step 19
If you are sitting beside her and she has her legs crossed over and her crossed over leg is towards you this may mean that she is comfortable in your company and likes to talk to you.
Step 20
Another sign that you can tell if a girl likes you is if she smiles every time you come and talk to her.
Step 21
Just ask her out and see what she says. Get it out of the way! If she likes you, it will save a lot of running around after her.
Step 22
If you like her, give her hint like on Myspace.com or Facebook.com, say "I'm always thinking of her." and if she asks you "Who do you like?" tell her that "It's her." or you can say that her name starts with a (use the letter her name starts with) and get her to think a little before you tell her, this is a really good flirting method.
Step 23
This could be a sign that they like you or a sign that they really hate you. So be careful.
Step 24
Notice her movements- if she is playing with her bangs, tugging on her hair, playing with her hair, or adjusting her clothes when she is talking to you, she probably likes you. Girls seem to get nervous around the guy they like and if she can't look you in the eye, it's a sign of something good. It just means that she really likes you and wants to look good for you- or she's very nervous around you.
Step 25
Pay attention to whether she changes her posture when you enter the class. This is a definite sign.
Step 26
Try and get her email and then make another email that has nothing to do with your name and send her emails saying that you like her but don't tell her who you are... or ask her if she likes you but don't tell her you're the person who's asking.
Step 27
Here's a great hint if she likes you. When your talking to her (before hand) have your friend walk up and say "Hi". If she says "Hi" and turns back to you, she either want's your attention or wants him to leave so she can continue.
Step 28
Notice when you tease her if she has a hard time thinking of a comeback she probably likes you but don't go to far to where she thinks you don't like her so be careful!
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Tips
- If she looks at you at random moments, she just might like you.
- If she looks at you when you are reading a book in class where the main character(s) kiss, mention a crush, or have any romantic moment, she is probably thinking similar thoughts about you and her.
- If she's always looking at you and smiling, chances are, she has a crush.
- If you're trying to lift something out of somebody's reach to tease them with it, and she tries to hold your hands down, she probably likes you.
- Also, if you ask "Can I have your number?" and she says "Yes", or she just gives it to you, then she is probably in to you.
- Also, if she tells you she likes you, then she's probably into you. She could be just trying to tease you or something, especially if she DOESN'T like you.
- A good way to find out if she likes you is to do something clumsy this will make her laugh. If she calls you an idiot while still smiling in a friendly way this is a good sign.
- If someone asks if you two are going out and she waits, she most likely doesn't want you to think she is a stalker, or desperate.
- Try to find out what she likes and find out more about it
- Chances are if she likes you she has told one of her friends so if you feel comfortable with one of her friends or know someone who is comfortable either of you can ask. If they answer "yes" or "no" it probably means just that. But if they say "maybe" or "they don't know" then it is most likely a yes becuase they do not want to abuse their friend's trust by telling you "yes" but do not want to ruin their friends chances with you by saying she isn't interested (you have to judge their character to make sure that they are telling the truth or not).
- To know if a girl likes you or not follow these rules. Talk to her make her notice you. Make a conversation if she taps her foot or gets to talk to your friends and stuff you know she likes you. IF she moves her foot back and forth and moves true to get closer she likes you
- If she calls you "cute" or something like that she likes you
- If she looks down when she sees you it's probably beacuse she likes you.
- If you already know each other and she asks you a lot of questions about yourself, chances are that she likes you - or at least wants to get to know you better.
- If she makes you cookies or any other home-made treat, that is a good sign.
- If she laughs at all your jokes - even the stupid ones - she likes you.
- If you want to tell her you like her, don't have one of your friends do it. Confront her herself and just say, "Hey, (name), I just wanted to tell you I really like you," and see what she says. If you do this yourself, then this is a way of showing her you're not a wimp to tell a girl you like her. If she studders and says, "Uhh... ohkay..." she probably doesn't like you. But if she says, "Cool. I sort of like you too," then that's obviously good.
- Don't be too overwhelming when you're around her. If you follow her around and constantly keep talking to her and not giving her any space, she may think you're a creep and not like you.
- If you find out she likes you and you like her, ask her out!
- If your sitting alone and she sits next to you she might like you.
Warnings
- If you come in a bad mood, and shes there, it will make her feel like you dont like her, and will cause her to stay away from you. *If you're sitting alone and she's next to you, don't look preoccupied or tired and depressed. It will discourage her to come up and talk to you. Smile at her. But if you are depressed, that's okay because she might come up and try to comfort you or ask you what's wrong. If she does, that could mean she likes you. But many people would do that if you looked depressed.
- If you have been friends with the girl for a while, be careful about telling her you like her. It can ruin your friendship if things go wrong.
- Try not to talk to her like you do with your mates if you don't know her too well, don't make her uncomfortable by saying stuff that is kind of MA rated, if she likes you she will probably just brush it off but may still feel awkward, if she doesn't like you she might frown and walk off.
- Don't stalk her this will make her scared and lose all interest
