For girls and boys, especially young teenagers, having a first kiss is something well sought after, and very nerve-wracking as well as frightening. If you're a girl, you may just want to pin your boyfriend down, and kiss like your life depends on it, but many are not as daring! So if you're one of the many girls who would like to kiss their boyfriends, but do not want to initiate it, follow these steps!
Step 1
Sit down close to him.
Step 2
Ask him a question somewhat to the effect of "Isn't this sunset beautiful? and wait for him to answer.
Step 3
Look into his eyes with a burning passion as you wait expectantly, thinking about what you want him to do, but don't let it draw your attention away from his answer to your question , as it may come earlier than expected. Lean in a little, but if you are standing, shuffle your feet ever so slightly towards him.
Step 4
Smile at the sweetness of success. If he gets the hint that you want to kiss him, and returns it, ta-da you have completed your mission!
Tips
- Wear lip gloss, try to get flavoured gloss so he doesn't wind up with a mouthful of nasty cosmetic stuff. Also, he will love it after the kiss, because he will know the lip gloss on his lips was on yours.
- Wear enough to make your lips soft, but not sticky. This causes annoying discomfort for both of you.
- Keep breath fresheners close at hand.
- Just remember some guys honestly do not like to be kissed with you wearing lip gloss so make it fun and experiment and see what flavors he likes best.
Warnings
- Don't try it if he's obviously not into you.
- If you think he may be like your ex, you might need to think again. This guy may want to go further than you've ever been, and might make you feel uncomfortable.
- Tell him politely but firmly to stop if at any point you are uncomfortable
- If telling him politely doesn't work, just tell him more firmly
- Do NOT try this if he is feeling seriously upset. It might make him feel awkward and make you feel awkward at the same time. Cheer him up! And once he's been cheered up, wait a while before trying the kiss.
Things You'll Need
- A boy!
- Breath mints, gum, and strips
- Flavored lip gloss (optional)
- A good sense of confidence, and firmness if you feel uncomfortable
