Have you ever wanted to flirt with a girl in class, but you never had the courage? Here are the basics on flirting with girls.
Step 1
Make sure you take care of all of your personal hygienic matters first. Take a shower every day, brush your teeth, wear deodorant. (But not too much! Some girls love it when you walk by and they can smell a hint of it on you, but if you use as much as the Axe commercials do, she'll think you just stink.)
Step 2
Find the girl you want to flirt with. If you are sitting next to her, you can simply start talking to her. Compliment her, tell her how good she looks, etc. Just remember not to say anything that might put her off, especially if you've never talked to her. Just pretend she is like one of your "guy" friends. Don't treat her exactly like this or she will feel like you don't care that she is a girl and are desprate for a new guy friend.
Step 3
If she isn't nearby, try to get her attention and when you do, look at her for a few seconds. Don't stare hard, or she will be a little creeped out. You then can start mouthing a conversation with her. Do not stare at anything below her face. The eyes and the lips have the best effect.
Step 4
Act like you have done this before. Be sure to show you are confident, just don't act stupid or insecure.
Step 5
Be cool, don't stress. there is always someone else !
Tips
- If you are sitting across the room, and you catch her staring at you, make eye contact and SMILE and mouth a conversation to her if she is interested in you she will keep mouthing a conversation too!
- Likewise, if you like her, and she catches you staring at her, smile, and try to keep eye contact for at least 3 seconds.
- Just talk to her and don't be shy
Warnings
- Don't act immature. It's not cute, it's annoying.
- Don't give her too many compliments or she'll think you don't mean it.
- Don't give her any gifts of any kind, unless you know her well enough.
- If you started to flirt with her, dont start flirting with another girl.
- Don't start talking trash to her. No dirty talk when you just meet her, its a real turn off and annoyance.
- Don't make a scene. This will freak girls out, and they will lose interest really fast.
- Don't violate her personal space in any sick or weird ways. (It's ok to "bump hands" or "accidently" swipe arms.
- Don't try to be funny talk to her like you normally would.
- Some guys act like a jerk when they think about a girl you like (well- in the sense of thinking about liking them). If this is going to happen at any point, take a breath and just act like a casual friend and try again later.
- There is never a time to be obnoxious. Keep it cool.
- There is always the chance that you will be totally rejected and shot down in flames. So be careful, and if you know you don't stand a chance, don't bother.
- If you know the girl likes you and you like her back you better go for it or else she'll move on.
